We look back on all our past, and fondly remember those times when we felt secure, and weren't confused, and were stable in what we knew was right and what we knew was wrong, and we say, those were the happy times. And maybe they were the happy times, as long as by happy we don't mean best.
Because honestly, those times when you hadn't a bally clue where to turn, or what to do, and you were completely confused as to what was right and what was wrong, those were the times when you grew. And every time you grew, you became a little bit more of who you were meant to be.
And that's why, in retrospect, we can look back and say, yes, it really was all for the best. And then we say again, when all is blurred and confused and you feel so lost you don't know where to step next, okay, it's all for the best. And it's just another step to you becoming perfect.
And in the end it really will all make sense.